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Lady Grinning Soul....

I am a curvacious, vivacious gothabilly with a zest for life and a wicked sense of humour! They call me the fairy gothmother round here! I have been a fan of alternative music since the early 80's but I am also completely in love with David Bowie. I am interested in Left wing politics, enjoy British films, particularly Mike Leigh and Ken Loach, and read loads of books. I never know what to say to encapsulate me in a blurb! I am a senior Mental Health nurse and I am passionate about mental health issues, breaking the taboo around mental illness and improving treatment and access to mental health support. I like ice cream, scallops and coffee but not necessarily in that order!. I also like to indulge in naps, tats and cats at any given opportunity. I have loads of tattoos and I'm still collecting. I have fantastic friends whom I adore. My favourite local is a bohemian dive with lots of live music, film nights and vegan food-although I am actually veggie (pescatarian really). I'm looking for a meeting of minds not just a meeting of bodies. I love to talk, debate and banter, and there is nothing more exciting to me than someone who stimulates good conversation and makes me laugh.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
Height165 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtInked all over, Visible tattoo, Other piercings
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleClinical Lead Mental Health Nurse

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
Music typesPunk
Favorite artistsDavid Bowie, The Hillbilly Moon Explosion, Kate Bush, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, Scroobius Pip, Johnny Cash, Marc Almond, many many more
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Fiction, Mystery
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Dining, Shopping


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorBoisterous
Friends describe asA flirt
In High School I was a(n)Class clown
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Going shopping, Staying at home, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / bars, Drinking, Reading a book, Going to a concert


Political viewsSocialist
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness